The holidays are upon us and it should be a very joyful time of year. But, CNN reported some 45 percent of those polled said the holiday season brings so much pressure, they would prefer to skip it altogether. Almost half said their level of stress that relates to holiday expenses is high or extremely high.
Stress. It's so powerful and prevalent in our lives. With the challenging times that we are in, so many have given up the ways they used to cope with it ~ recent reports showed that yoga class attendance is down, massage practice appointments are fewer and tension higher at work and in the home.
You don't have to GIVE UP altogether to counter your stress. In fact, that feeling of deprivation will only make your stress worse. Some of my own savvy clients have figured out that INSTEAD OF GIVING UP they simply do things fewer times. And then, REPLACE the time that they typically come with SOMETHING ELSE.
They go for a walk, yoga or stretching at home, do their own 'self-spa treatment' at home or read a relaxing book in piece and quiet. Instead of coming twice a month, they are coming once a month. Instead of coming once a month, they are coming once a season. BUT, the key is they are still honoring themselves by NOT giving UP the time they had devoted to self care and stress relief....
They are simply re-arranging their approach and for this they feel empowered and are able to manage their stress levels!
What are you doing to manage your stress levels? Can you think of alternatives to help? If you need some tips around that, give me a call, I can walk you through some thoughts in less than 5 minutes!
Maya Lincoln
8:23 pm on Thursday, November 29, 2012
Love the article. Personally, my family and I see the Holidays as a time to be spent together, have a great meal, and reflect on the year. Since we are all adults (there are no children), we don't exchange gifts. We figure that everyone has what they want and has their own money throughout the year to get things they need. We started this a few year ago, after years of not figuring out what the other wanted. Plus, we could just get gift cards, but no one really has a favorite store. Plus, we are just thankful for having each other. I myself am very thankful for all of the love, support, and encouragement we all give each other throughout the year.
Laura Clark
7:30 am on Friday, November 30, 2012
Maya~ that is wonderful! And, you have truly discovered the meaning of the Spirit of Family Holidays!!!! An inspiration....
Govstench
7:37 am on Friday, November 30, 2012
I agree with the previous post, we enjoy going out with friends, spending Christmas eve with friends. The tradition of cooking Christmas eve and Christmas day dinners is past - time for others to do that. We will bring a dish with us to compliment the dinner but that is it. As for the shopping madness? People today are nuts. You are bored for the simples to sit in a tent and wait for midnight to open. That is a retailer's ploy to get people in the store. I doubt there is that great of savings anyway.
russell archambault
4:04 pm on Friday, November 30, 2012
NEWS FLASH: santa is not comming to town this year, get over it !
Cares About Middletown
9:04 am on Saturday, December 1, 2012
Russell: Santa is coming to MY house. Sorry he's missing yours.
la_mouffette
1:04 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012
Aww...Russell, got coal last year
=(
English first
6:23 pm on Friday, November 30, 2012
Russ, Santa is coming to town.
Yankee Clipper
11:50 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012
Yeah just not the Rhode Island State House or any member of the ACLU.
Joe The Plumber
4:13 pm on Monday, December 3, 2012
I'm spending more time worshipping God, being with family and friends, eating, drinking and generally being merry. Did I say eating?
Merry Christmas!